The issue i am having is that i found out my partner had been watching it a lot last summer after having the internet for 3 months. He had been texting me to say he was going to bed two hours or so before the times I found on his PC showing he’d been on a porn website. We do not live together and when I found the porn, he just said he would stop watching it and that I had nothing to worry about as he wasnt addicted to it. He still swears now that he doesnt watch it, but since then he has set his internet history to delete on exit of the net so it keeps no records. I feel so guilty that I don’t believe him, and I think I don’t believe him because this was not something i asked him to do and it seems unrealistic to me that he would just stop watching it when he had been watching it every night we were not together. He said he did it because he does not feel comfortable with texting/calling me to tell me he is horny, so watched it online, but i’d rather he involved me. I’m finding it hard as each time I bring it up he gets more exhasperated as he has promised he is not watching it, but he lied to me so well before, I know some trust has gone. Perhaps it does not help also that all internet forums and friends say is that ‘all men watch porn’. So I feel as though if I was to believe he had stopped, that he would be some amazing exception of a guy. The issue is trust and i know that, but I just don’t know how to address it. I want to trust that he tells me the truth.