Is porn disrupting your life?

Call it addiction, compulsion, habit or harmless fun, pornography can disrupt your relationship – and your life.

…the amount of porn he was viewing was literally in my face … what bothered me most was that I couldn’t get away from it. I was famished for anything that would ease my pain and help me understand. While I felt too much fear and shame to reach out to friends, the Internet seemed like a safe place to begin. Much to my surprise I found nothing helpful at all. Nothing! … I began to feel hopeless.

Save your Relationship

Garry and I eventually found ways to move beyond the conflict about porn and emerge with a relationship stronger, more loving, and more resilient than ever before. As our relationship has strengthened and grown I haven’t forgotten the hopelessness in my search for help. This is the website I wished I had found back then…

When Victoria has heard me and I have heard her, I know I don’t have to change; but often I find that I want to. What is different now is that the desire to change doesn’t come from fear or from thinking that I should. It comes out of love and respect for my own needs as well as hers, and that is a solid foundation for change.

Regain Control of your Life

This website provides you with the tools and practical methods we learned to achieve a deeper understanding of ourselves and each other and to create a rich, loving relationship.