Comments on: Chapter 1 – The Journey Begins http://gethelpwithporn.com Dealing with Porn and Saving your Relationship Fri, 28 May 2010 21:33:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: tommy http://gethelpwithporn.com/our-book/chapter-1-the-journey-begins/comment-page-1/#comment-36 tommy Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:45:57 +0000 http://gethelpwithporn.com/?page_id=24#comment-36 wow...........you and garry could be myself and my wife, i have looked at porn, now and again over the years (not often), but i have however done it in"private". i dont understand why, i thought it was "natural" for men to do this,but this time my wife checked my computer , and we had "a chat", for some unknown reason this time everything she said made sense, now i am riddled with guilt about it and would love to sort out things properly. my wife has had a REALLY bad couple of years,for one reason and another,the last thing she needs is me adding to her feeling low and worthless,(something i NEVER want to do, intentionally or unintentionally. my wife put me onto this site,and by reading the little i have makes so much sense,(i still dont understand it),but so want to. i am a man of very few words, by this i mean i find it EXTREMLY hard to talk about things like emotions and feelings, i have a pretty bad past (not an excuse)but i now know it plays a part in my everyday life,which i am trying to get sorted. me and my wife DONT have a sex life, and that is mostly down to me,i have never had much of a libido,but now it isnt present at all, so why would i look at porn???????.i truly cant remember the last time i had an erection, i am only 38yrs old, and i know there is more to that, so i think you can see why i dont understand. i will get your book as soon as i can,as i think and hope it will help us out enormously,from what i have read here. thank you so much also thanks to my wife for pointing it out. tom. wow………..you and garry could be myself and my wife, i have looked at porn, now and again over the years (not often), but i have however done it in”private”.
i dont understand why, i thought it was “natural” for men to do this,but this time my wife checked my computer , and we had “a chat”, for some unknown reason this time everything she said made sense, now i am riddled with guilt about it and would love to sort out things properly.
my wife has had a REALLY bad couple of years,for one reason and another,the last thing she needs is me adding to her feeling low and worthless,(something i NEVER want to do, intentionally or unintentionally.
my wife put me onto this site,and by reading the little i have makes so much sense,(i still dont understand it),but so want to.
i am a man of very few words, by this i mean i find it EXTREMLY hard to talk about things like emotions and feelings, i have a pretty bad past (not an excuse)but i now know it plays a part in my everyday life,which i am trying to get sorted.
me and my wife DONT have a sex life, and that is mostly down to me,i have never had much of a libido,but now it isnt present at all, so why would i look at porn???????.i truly cant remember the last time i had an erection, i am only 38yrs old, and i know there is more to that, so i think you can see why i dont understand.
i will get your book as soon as i can,as i think and hope it will help us out enormously,from what i have read here.

thank you so much

also thanks to my wife for pointing it out.

tom.

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